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Post by nicole0deon on Dec 12, 2007 22:57:28 GMT 1
hello everyone! well i was thinking today that we could all help each other out a little and give out some advice. so if you wanna post your problems here, the rest of us can help you out and give you some advice. so i'll start first then you just post your advice or your own problems. i know its a good idea. and you could also just confess stuff if you need to get something off your chest.  my problem: i have this friend and she says shes my friend but she makes fun of me all the time. she says she's just kidding, but it still hurts. what do you think i should do? |
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kataang
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Post by kataang on Dec 12, 2007 23:18:53 GMT 1
Tell her you don't like the way she talks about you, and talks about you to others. Say you don't like it when she's making fun of you, and that you can't call her a friend when she's acting like that.
-or something like that.
Hope it will help!
I also got one, A friend of me is acting very... snotty and un-kind to me.
What you should think I have to do?
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Post by nicole0deon on Dec 12, 2007 23:25:26 GMT 1
thanks for the advice ;D
i think that you should talk to them and see if theres a reason why they're being snotty. if its a friend you dont want to lose you should try and talk it out before the issue gets blown out of proportion and you lose your friend. i had a friend be snotty to me and i dont think i handled the situation well. we're not friends anymore. i just held in my feelings and got really angry. not good. lol. BUT you can still save your friendship. i hope my advice helps!
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Post by kataang on Dec 12, 2007 23:27:48 GMT 1
Thanks much,
but more of my friends think she's behaving snotty. Should we all tell her?
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Post by nicole0deon on Dec 12, 2007 23:41:07 GMT 1
im not sure because she might think your all talking behind her back and that you ganging up on her. so you might just want one of you to talk to her but very gently if shes the emotional type. if my friend was being snotty i would probably just go up to her in private and in person and ask why. confronting her in person would be better (vs over the phone or aim) because she can see you dont hate her but that your serious. i'm learning thats its better to talk before you get angry so you dont get mad and on a rampage and say things you shouldnt say.
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Post by katanafighter15 on Dec 18, 2007 5:37:54 GMT 1
I think that you should both talk to your friends about it. If they are still gonna do it even if they know it bothers you, they are not really your friend.
I've got one too. One of my best friends has a history of not being faithful. Now she's got a bf that she's totally serious over and so do I. The thing is, she seems to think that she should come first in my bf's life. I know that they are friends, but she doesn't have to be all over him. Should I say something to her or just let it be? I have complete trust in my bf and I've talked to him and I know that I have nothing to worry about. Thing is, I view myself as less, well, desirable than her. What should I do?
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Post by kataangaxk on Dec 18, 2007 8:31:49 GMT 1
amazingly, I had the same problem. One day I confronted him. He said he was sorry and stuff and stuff got better. =D
And OMG I have the same problem from kataang. I like this girl and I dont know if she likes me. She is one of my best friends, if not my best friend. Should I confront her?
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Post by katanafighter15 on Dec 19, 2007 5:27:11 GMT 1
I would go for it. If she's your friend, then she will understand. Openess and honesty only builds a relationship. My theory is that everything works out the way it should. It just depends on how you go about doing it. It's character building I guess.
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Post by Combustion kid on Dec 19, 2007 5:37:49 GMT 1
thats true i agree with katanafighter
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Post by katanafighter15 on Dec 20, 2007 4:30:49 GMT 1
Yah, my mom told me that. She's a teacher, so she kinda knows how to deal with people. I've kinda read a little on psychology 'cause I might be a psychologist. Anytime you need advice, feel free to PM me. I love helping people.
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Post by zuko2105 on Jan 15, 2008 3:14:16 GMT 1
i have a problem! there is a relly big war inside of my head and i dont even know what its about!
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Post by ZIE on Jan 17, 2008 0:12:20 GMT 1
i have a sorta goofy problem THEY DELAYED THE RELEASE OF SUPER SMASH BROS BRAWL AGAIN!! went from february 10 and got pushed back to march 9. IM ANGRY!!!
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Post by zuko2105 on Jan 17, 2008 3:20:45 GMT 1
ya thats frustrating
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Post by mexicanknight on Jan 25, 2008 2:25:46 GMT 1
i got a problem.........i cant stop smoking
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Post by terra on Jan 25, 2008 18:19:33 GMT 1
hmm what a problem! well maybe you should make a list of what is all bad on smoking... after that you should always have it with you and if you actually want to smoke look on your list and read it all what you are doing to your boding if you smoke one at that moment. and there are these chewing gums ... some people say that they do a good job!  hope my advise helps you! and you'll soon stop to smoke. good luck! at the moment I dont really have any problem... ;D |
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hope my advise helps you! and you'll soon stop to smoke. good luck!
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